Day: June 18, 2019

Does intimacy makes us ……………..?

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Today I’m facing a boring day, it’s not moving like any other day because of work pressure, sometimes we feel, need to skip some work from our day’s routine to get some peace, which meant not to go away from it, in between we can make our self-free for what we love to do or to go, It is a wonderful habit to get rid of with every day’s fed off thing, and also it helps to grow in your passion and find yourself in it. Just in this way of thinking, I got a word that is intimacy and I ran behind this topic on google, I got a lot of info about it, just I would like to share here.

Intimacy is the closeness in any relationship, any two souls get connected to each other either in the same thoughts or emotions or any reason, each one gives a comfortable feeling to stay some time or a long time with each other but literally, I found, it has many types, I tried to brief them.

If we have had a brother or sisters, sometimes with friends, you also may feel intimacy with your loved one or anyone, let us remember a few memories from our childhood days to till now, 3 years old boy fight for chocolate with his sister and made her cry after he got it, Acts as nothing has happened, but that anger will not move a long time, then at the same time that kid sacrifices so many things for his sister too. The same thing happens to our friends in everyday life too, and we all are tied in relations with emotion as a brother, sister or friend, parents, etc., etc.. Which can call an emotional intimacy.

In day to day life, we may meet a stranger anywhere either on the roadside when we are walking, in the park when we are doing some healthy exercise or anywhere it may be. The strangers would turn as our friends when only spending some time with them through ideas and have a meaningful conversation, this we can call Intellectual Intimacy.

When I joined the school at the very first time no one knew, I took lots of time to speak comfortably with all and to make friends, the same thing I had experienced when I joined the organization to build the carrier at the very first time so we take time to understand others, trust or feel comfortable with them, thus we can call Experiential intimacy.

And one more intimacy is called physical intimacy it is all about touch and closeness between bodies, you may feel it when you give a hand for the welcome or hug tightly to your friend or sex and romantic feelings between lover,

Nowadays we are classified into all, ex: – in love we are hearing often this love is good, that love is fake-one like this, also in friends, bad/fake, for his craving he is making friends a lot that is not good. So whatever it is, we all are living on the earth, everyone has feelings, everyone has its own life,

We do give respect, try to understand everything by heart, we trust all, we believe everyone, we do think in a highly good way. We keep our hearts in purity, sure good things will come back.